As I grow older, of course I've learnt a lot.
From mistakes I made.
From people I met.
From unwanted circumstances
From books I read.
From movies I watched.
Basically, everything happened to me had at least something to teach me lessons. If I'm lucky enough, I learnt, if I'm not, its just gonna be a piece of memory.
I also learn to not judge quickly. Now, before I started to judge, I'll try my best to figure out WHY is that unwanted issues popping up before shallowly throw my trashy opinions and talks. I will always try to put myself in their shoes first.
Obviously, I'm not a good person but I do try. Sometimes we just cant get over ourselves; sometimes its hard to control the bad-temperaments that used to be our routines. What else we can do to put ourselves in higher hieracy in the society except for improving ourselves to a better version. One does not has to transform drastically to be a better person because I'm afraid its not be continuous. In order to change to a better person, we have to transform little by little.
Nothings wrong about taking a drastic change, but can you afford it?
Judging too quick somehow shows how ignorant you are towards yr surroundings.
You never realized.
Thats what i used to experienced.
I judge way too quick. I spread unclear rumours for the sake for getting attention, liked and accepted. For the sake to be someone's first source- gossip source. I consider myself lucky if the unclear rumours i spread are true. But when the things turn upside down, i get humiliated and looked so stupid.
Until now, i still dont get it, what is the significant of spreading false unrealistic news? Like the rumours made by irresponsible people who spread about ebola disease in Malaysia.
And when the news reach to the crowd, everyone wants to spread the same things. They spread news that they dont even know whether it is true or not.
But i dont blame them. Maybe they feel pleasure when they did that.
I just promised to not judge quickly
and i just did!